Family Resources

 
 

 Families and Children of the Incarcerated 



New Resources

(click on links to download)

Guidebook for Familes and Friends of the Incarcerated
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Children and Families of the Incarcerated Fact Sheet
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Bill of Rights for Children of the Incarcerated
[1 page]>

 

Bill of Rights for Children of the Incarcerated Expanded
 [15 pages]>

 

Ways the Church Can Help:

Ministry with Families and Children of the Incarcerated
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Amachi

People of faith mentoring children of promise.  Provides training for mentoring children of the incarcerated.  http://www.amachimentoring.org/

Family and Corrections Network

Family and corrections Network provides accurate and relevant information for children and families of the incarcerated.  Provides training for those working in the field.  http://www.fcnetwork.org/ 

Click on Library and the Children's Library. 
The Children's Library is available in Spanish.

Facts and Issues:

·Introduction to Children of Prisoners
·Why Maintain Relationships?
·Conversations:  Questions Children Ask
·Risk and Protection
·Visiting Mom or Dad:  The Child's Perspective

 For Caregivers:

·Caring for children of Prisoners
·Questions for Caregivers
·What do children of Prisoners and their Caregivers Need?
·Tips for Caregivers-from Caregivers

For Health Care Providers:

·Impact of Parental Incarceration
·Challenges for Health Care Providers
·Common Stress Points
·Different Children/Behaviors
·Strategies for Intervention
·Tips for fostering Trust and Safety
·The Caregiver's Situation

 

Healing Communities

Healing Communities is an innovative approach to prison ministry and prisoner reentry that begins with the caring resources of the local congregation.  http://healingcommunitiesusa.org/

Institute for Prison Ministries (IPM)

IPM Library Booklet Series:

·Help! My Child's Been Arrested. Now What?
·Help? My Loved One is in Jauil.  Now What?
·Sentenced. Now What?
·Coming Home!  A Guide for Those Receiving a Loved One Back from Prison or Jail

 

Speak Up for Hope

Founded by Carol Kent, Author and Speaker

http://www.speakupforhope.org/hope/

Counseling is available for families and children with loved ones who are incarcerated.

 

 Additional Resources

Families of incarcerated individuals face many challenges.  The resources listed here are divided under the following headings:  Children, Parents and Inmates.

CHILDREN 

Many issues surround children of the incarcerated parent.  Resources are listed to assist parents and caregivers handle these sensitive challenges in the life of children.

RESEARCH:

Children of Incarcerated Parents Fact Sheet  Research summary on impact of incarceration on children and families produced by the Annie E. Casey Foundation.

Children With Incarcerated Parents:  A List of Selected Resources  Research, resources, programs and practice and policy activity published by the Annie E. Casey Foundation.

Children With Incarcerated Parents:  A Descriptive Analysis of Children and Families Served by Angel Tree in Maryland  Prison Fellowship Research Brief, June, 2008

Focus on Children With Incarcerated Parents: An Overview of the Research Literature  Notes on the literature review published by the Annie E. Casey Foundation, 2007. 

Parents in Prison and Their Minor Children  According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, parents held in the nation's prisons--52% of state inmates and 65% of federal inmates--reported having an estimated 1,706,600 minor children, accounting for 2.3% of the U. S. resident population under age 18.  For the full report by Lauren E. Glaze and Laura M. Maruschak, http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/pub/pdf/pptmc.pdf

STATISTICS AND RESEARCH ON CHILDREN OF PRISONERS

RESOURCES:

Mercy Heart Ministry Action Clinic" with Roger W. Hollar

This fifty minute DVD presentation provides an overview of the Mercy Heart Chapel Program. It will develop an awareness of the at-risk nature of families and children of inmates, introduce the Mercy Heart model for ministry, and answer questions about this ministry. It includes a menu of frequently asked questions, a downloadable clinic manual (PDF), and additional Mercy Heart video presentations. $12.95 + $4.00 S&H

Purchase the manual and DVD together for $39.95 plus $5.00 S&H 

"Families on the Gallows of Criminal Justice" by Roger W. Hollar

This is a complete manual for churches on doing ministry with at-risk families and children of inmates. It is the compilation of fifteen years experience. It includes Scriptural and social justification for such a ministry, step by step planning, organizational direction, enlistment advice, reporting and budgeting guidelines, supporting forms provided on CD, and a DVD testimonial presentation by volunteers and family members. $34.95 + $4.00 S&H

 

 

"When a Parent Goes to Jail:  A Comprehensive Guide for Counseling Children of Incarcerated Parents"  by Rebecca M. Yaffe & Lonnie F. Hoade;  Rayve Productions, Inc., 2000  ISBN:  1-877810-08-8

Professional counselors help children understand the rules, laws, and consequences, why their parents are in jail, what to expect in the legal system and how to cope with their emotions. (Ages 5-12).

"When a Parent Goes to Jail Workbook" by Rebecca M. Yaffe and Lonnie F. Hoade; ISBN:  1-877810-11-8

This professionally developed companion workbook to the above guide contains writing and drawing activities that help children develop understanding and work through complex emotions. (Ages 5-12).

"Visiting Day" by Jacqueline Woodson, Scholastic Press, 2002;  ISBN:  978-0-590-40005-3 

This book is a story about a little girl and her grandmother who take the bus to visit her father who is in prison. (Ages 4-10).

"Momma Loves Me From Away," by Pat Brisson, Boyds Mills Press, 2004; ISBN:  1-56397-966-7

This is a loving story about a mother and child separated by a prison sentence and about how they try to stay in touch despite the physical distance between them.

"My Daddy is in Jail" by Janet M. Bender, Youth Light Inc., 2003.  ISBN:  1-889636-48-7

This is a resource to help children cope with the incarceration of a loved one.  It includes a read-aloud story, discussion guide, caregiver suggestions and optional small group counseling activities. (Grades K-5).

"Daddy, Why Are You Going to Jail?"  by Stephen Lawson, Harold Shaw Publishers, 1992.  ISBN:  087788-161-8

A father's story about his descent into white collar crime, restoration and forgiveness.

"A Family Arrested" by Ann Edenfield

Ann details her journey of survival when her husband was arrested and incarcerated in a Federal Prison.  She offers helpful suggestions to cope with this difficult situation and to understand the criminal justice system. To order a copy, contact Wings Ministry at http://www.wingsministry.org/

"Learning to Sing in a Strange Land: When a Loved One Goes to Prison" by Wesley Stevens

The author graphically describes the experience of incarceration both from the family's perspective and that of the inmate.  His story of a family member's incarceration is deeply personal but also very informative and inspirational.  Available from http://www.amazon.com/

 Preparing Children for Prison Visits

This resource provides tips for parents and caregivers on how to prepare for a child's first visit to an incarcerated parent.  It also provides developmental guidlines for infants, older babies, toddlers, pre-schoolers and school-age children with age-specific suggestions on how to prepare the child for the visit and what to expect during the visit.  This resource lists specific ways to prepare the child before the visit.

Questions Children and Caregivers Ask and Communication Tips

These resources offer answers to common questions posed by both children and their primary caregiver as well as general tips for communication between prisoners and their families.

Developmental Issues and Behaviors for Children of Incarcerated Parents

This resourse explores developmental characteristics and tendencies for children and how they may react to a parent's incarceration at different stages of development.  It also explores family dynamics that either help or detract from the child's coping skills.

Children of the Incarcerated

The Chicago Reporter September/October 2008 issue featured a cover story on Children of the Incarcerated.  Click here to review entire issue.

A Sentence of Their Own

A documentary by Edgar A. Barens that chronicles one family's annual pilgrimage to a New Hampshire State Prison, revealing the damaging impact incarceration has on families.  This documentary can be a great training tool to help your church or organization more effectively minister to familes impacted by incarceration.  http://www.asentenceoftheirown.com/  

PARENTS/CAREGIVERS

THE NEW YORK STATE DOCS HANDBOOK FOR FAMILIES AND FRIENDS OF INMATES

The New York State Deparment of Corrections recently published (and posted on their website) a handbook for families.  Workshop presenters, involved in the creation of the handbook and development of informational and supportive resources for families before the handbook became available, will discuss the process and impact of engaging families through these and other methods.
http://www.docs.state.ny.us/FamilyGuide/FamilyHandbook.html

Parenting Issues Upon Release from Incarceration

The long-awaited outdate is nearing and the family is looking forward to reunification.  But what challenges will both parents and children face when the incarcerated member returns to the family system?  This resource explores these issues and offers specific suggestions to ease the transition and ways the supportive community can assist.

Foster Care

Provides statistics on number of children in foster care due to parental incarceration.

Parenting Issues During Incarceration

This paper presented at the "From Prison to Home" Conference in January, 2002, explores the challenges parents face during their incarceration.

INMATES 

PRISON SURVIVAL GUIDE

Prison Fellowship has created a guide to help inmates survive in prison.  You may download the guide at: http://www.pfm.org/media/pfm/docs/prison_survival_guide.pdf 

THE BRENNAN CENTER FOR JUSTICE

For information on the effort to restore the right to vote for ex-offenders, click here.

THE REAL COST OF PRISONS PROJECT

The Real Cost of Prisons Project seeks to broaden and deepen the organizing capactiy to prison/justice activists working to end mass incarceration.  The Real Cost of Prisons Project brings together justice activists, artists, justice policy researchers and people directly experiencing the impact of mass incarceration to create popular education materials and other resources which explore the immediate and long-term costs of incarceration on the individual, her/his family, community and the nation.
http://www.realcostofprisons.org/

THE SECOND  CHANCE ACT

Visit Prison Fellowship's Justice Fellowship page for information about this important piece of legislation as well as other issues surrounding justice reform and inmate rights.  http://www.justicefellowship.org/site_hmpg.asp

U. S. DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE BUREAU OF JUSTICE STATISTICS

This website offers an incredible wealth of information, including a chart providing an overview of the sequence of events from the report of a crime to parole.  http://www.ojp.gov/bjs/largechart.htm

 

 

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